Friday, November 28, 2008

Native American Heritage Day





Just want to point out that today is Native American Heritage Day. It's not a recurring event. No, no, no. Just for this year. (As Eric would say, "just another example of the white man keeping us down).

Now, neither of us check off the Native American box when we fill out paperwork. We both have more European, WASPy heritage than anything. I don't get anything from my tribe, and all we get from Eric's is the car tags. But still, I want to point out that my 5/64 Cherokee-Choctaw degree is more than Eric's 9/128 Potawatomi. That makes Nathan 19/256. Yes, it took me awhile to figure out the fractions.

So, in honor of our heritage, here are some pics from both sides of the family.

Thanksgiving




Hope everyone out there (all 4 of you who read this) had a great Thanksgiving. We enjoyed ourselves. Certainly wasn't the chaos of a big family gathering. We all contributed to dinner. Nathan made the mashed potatoes and gravy. He decided to write down the ingredients so we wouldn't forget the recipe. I made the cheesy broccoli and rice casserole. Thanks, Aunt Kaye, for the recipe. I have never in my life cooked with cheese whiz before, but it came out pretty good. And Eric made the turkey. It was the most fantabulous turkey EVER! So tender! So moist! So flavorful! Now, Eric usually downplays his efforts in the kitchen (it's okay, it's mediocre, meh). But this time, he was actually impressed with his own cooking. Enough so that we might have to buy another turkey for next weekend. (We only bought a 6 pound turkey, so he's already polished off the leftovers this morning.)

4 hours of cooking, then 2 hours of clean up and sanitizing for 10 minutes of eating. But the impressive part is that we all actually ate at the same time at the same table. Can't remember the last time that happened.

We'll probably drag in the tree later today.

Shout out to my parents on their wedding anniversary today and to my aunt and uncle on theirs yesterday. Love ya!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Nerd years come early

Braces and glasses. Poor guy. This will be the year that sucks for Nathan.

The move to Hinesville
New school
New friends
braces
glasses
Eric going to school for 2 months and possibly deployed.

May have to get a puppy to offset all the emotional upheaval.

So we went to the orthodontist on Monday. He's recommending a 2 phased-approach. Braces on the 8 adult teeth he's already got, plus a couple of extractions. That's for the first 12-18 months. Then a retainer for 1-1/2 to 2 years (good luck with keeping track of that!). Then perhaps another round of braces on the adult teeth that come later. Hopefully round 1 will be enough.

Eye exam came today. His obscenely long eyelashes (courtesy of the Cryer male genetics) made for a difficult exam. Luckily, the professionals only tested him as 20-40 in each eye - unlike the 20-70 that the pediatrics clinic did. But we're going ahead to get the glasses. Should be ready in 7-10 business days.

So, between the braces payment plans and the glasses - to all our loved ones that we exchange presents with at Christmas - be prepared for 3rd ID t-shirts and coffee mugs. 'Cuz that's all our budget will allow for ;)

Monday, November 24, 2008

Teeth, Nose, Eyes, Hamstrings

This has been a week of doctor visits for Nathan. It started with a much-delayed dental visit last Friday. I have been a bad mom. I haven't been good about taking Nathan to the dentist. I've never had a cavity, so I didn't really think about Nathan getting one. Reality check when he had to have his eyes, ears and teeth checked before we could enroll him in Georgia schools. Dentist on post noticed 2 cavities. Oh the guilt! It's my fault. I feel so bad. (Of course, Eric could have just as easily taken care of this, but still!)

So anyway, I take Nathan to the dentist on Friday. He can't believe the kid's already got 8 adult teeth. But, Nathan's got an underbite - which we already knew - and he's apparently got an adult molar trying to grow in funny. So in about 15 minutes, I'm going to take him to the orthodontist for a consult. Now, if you are in the military, and in fairly good health, then your healthcare costs are practically nil. HOWEVER, braces are a whole 'nother story. Hopefully the guy will just want to keep an eye on his growth. As Nathan has grown, the underbite is not as bad as it was when he was little. His original dentist didn't worry about it. Said that you don't want to do anything too soon, while he's still growing.

Anyway, then I took Nathan to have a sports physical. Not sure what sport to get him into at this point, but we need to have this done in any case. Well, the doctor says that he's going through a growth spurt, so we need to work with him to stretch out his hamstrings twice a day. Nathan had an eye-opening experience getting his hernia checked.

Then they checked his eyes. He tested 20-70 in each eye. Now, when his eyes were tested a month earlier, they passed him. Same clinic, same eye chart. So, either the nurse last time was incompetant, or his eyes took a dramatic turn for the worse in a month. Hmmm. He's got an eye appointment on Wednesday. Sigh. Eric is now blaming me for this. I had glasses when I was 8, and he didn't get glasses until he was 12. So obviously, it's through my genes that he's eyes have failed so young. Ha-ha. He's SOOO funny.

And finally, Nathan's got a spot on his nose. I asked the doctor about it. "Looks like ringworm. May not be. If it is, it's so early, it could be anything." !!!! So now we're dabbing goop on his nose twice a day.

After we stretch out his hamstrings.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Eric's idea of heaven

It's 60 degrees on a Sunday evening. Eric is grilling NY strips on the backporch. We beat Tech last night 65-21, and are now #3 in the BCS. He slides open the back door to tell me (very excitedly) that he's heard both the Bee-Gee's Saturday Night Fever, and Abba's Waterloo on the radio while he's out there.

Can it get any better than this?

Sooner Magic

Thursday, November 20, 2008

We've been busy...





So Tuesday Nathan and I went to Savannah as part of his class's field trip. COLDEST MORNING OF THE YEAR! We spent 4 hours wandering outside, looking at historical markers and statues. I don't really think the kids cared about a plaque detailing the founding of Freemasonry in Georgia, but by gorsh, the teacher was bound and determined to read every single word. Of course, between the road traffic and her making them stand in a long line, I'm sure that none of the kids in the back had a hope of hearing her. Those of you with access to our flickr account can see the other pics that I took on the trip.

I'm not crazy about Nathan's teacher, but I did get some enjoyment out of watching her trying to get 22 extremely excited 1st graders ready for a field trip. She started out talking about the rules - stay with your buddy, stay on the sidewalk, don't talk to strangers. Then it was on. Almost every kid in the room started waving their hands wildly. As she called on them, they all started their 'stranger danger' spiels. "If someone offers you candy, run away." "If someone grabs you, you need to kick and scream or they'll kill you." At least 4 kids mentioned the getting killed possibility. She finally put a stop to all of that. "Okay, no more stories, does anybody have an actual question?" I'm telling the truth - the next kid to raise his hand asked, "How did the civil war start?" Rather than simply saying, "good question, but not something we're talking about today. We can talk about that at another time," she actually tried to answer! Long rambling 5 minute answer. !!!! Sheesh...

The mystery photo is Nathan's hands-on project for his Paiute report. It's a wickiup, kinda like a teepee. Eric and I were hoping that I could just go get a mortar and pestle, which he could use. But nooo, he wanted to build something. However, like a typical little boy, he wouldn't make the effort to collect the supplies until the day before. Then he comes home and announces the wickiup should be on a posterboard, and it should have a background, and there should be trees and a blue sky. Yeah, for all that, we should have started a lot sooner. Makes me remember the time in 5th grade when I came home and told Dad that I needed a science project by the next day... Anyway, Eric and I worked on the construction, while Nathan tackled the painting and overall aesthetics. He just walked in the door and said the teacher gave him an A+. (She better have!)

The last is my first quilt made in the new house.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

we got a bleeder!





So Nathan's bestest friend in Georgia came to play today. Eric is convinced that he has the best angry face on a kid that he's ever seen. Judge for yourself.

Next time when your mother tells you to stop rough-housing, do what she tells you! Eric had his tushy kicked by a couple of 7 year olds. (Imagine that - Eric rough-housing WITH the boys!) Shaving will be a challenge tomorrow...

Friday, November 14, 2008

Now THAT'S a parade!




The digital version is better at http://www.stewart.army.mil/. This pic is in the Nov. 13th edition, section A, page 8.

Eric is playing the bass drum on the left. He's marching directly in front of the tuba player. You can see his eyes and hat, and his right arm out as he's about to hit the drum. He's in a direct line with the second 'm' in the the word Communities in the title of the picture.

Kinda of like playing Where's Waldo.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Savannah Veterans Parade


Eric had to leave so early to get to this parade, that Nathan and I didn't go. But I did find some coverage. If you go to this tv channel, http://www.wtoc.com/global/story.asp?s=9331001, and click on the little red video icon, you might see Eric playing the bass drum - as long as you don't blink. He's at 36 second mark. He's not on the screen for the entire second.

Eric said it was a pretty nice parade. Little long at 3 miles, but the weather was perfect for it. Said the CG (commanding general) and the CSM (command sgt. major) led off the parade, followed by the honor guard, the band, then soldiers from the 5 brigades. I asked if they had any tanks in the parade (after all this is a tank division). "No, those are all in Iraq." You mean they didn't leave any behind, just for parades and ceremonies? Even the older models? "Sugar, I don't think the city planners in Savannah really want a 72-ton track vehicle, rolling through their historic downtown." Well, that makes sense.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Veteran's Day

"For Freedom"

Somewhere a trumpet sounds in the night
A soldier is standing there
It’s calling him out to the stars and the stripes
It’s calling him God knows where

He kisses the ones he loves goodbye
and leaves in the dead of night
For freedom he’ll heed the call
Leave all he knows
And for freedom he’ll stand and fight

And somewhere a man and wife
can’t believe they’re waving their girl goodbye
For gone are the days of pigtails and curls and candlelight lullabies

If they had their way she’d stay young forever
and never be far from home
But freedom has drawn her heart to danger’s shore
And for freedom they’ll let her go

And somewhere a thunderous crash in the night
It echoes all through the hills
Though many escape it’s wrath and it’s rage
A soldier lies wounded still

Remembering the land he loves, he cries
I’ve loved you with all my might
For freedom said I’m her son whatever comes
And for freedom I’ll say goodbye

And somewhere beneath the stars and the sky
Our flag is still standing there
She bled and she brought one land under God
Her colors still lead us there

She’s carried the lives of those before us
She’s buried the bold and brave
For freedom she holds our hopes and and hands up high
And for freedom she’ll ever wave


Written by Matt Moran
Produced by Shaun Shankel
©2005 Meadowgreen Music

Anyone who has volunteered to serve in our armed forces since 2003, and those who have re-enlisted, have gone in with eyes wide open, knowing that they probably would be sent to war. AND THEY STILL SERVED! May God continue to protect our service people, and provide healing to the minds and bodies of our veterans.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

That's a big drum!




The incredibly handsome soldier carrying the bass drum would be my hubby. If you want a clearer, digital image, go to

http://www.stewart.army.mil/

Click on the November 6 issue of the Frontline newspaper, and it's on the bottom of page 3.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Our first play date!



I just want to point out that Nathan is 12 months older than his friend, even though they are in the same class at school. So it theoretically shouldn't be a shock that Nathan's so much taller - but still.

Two weeks ago, I wrote our names and contact info on 2 scraps of paper. Nathan said he had 2 friends at school, but didn't know their last names or how to get ahold of them. So I gave him the slips of paper and told him to give them to his friends, hoping that one set of parents would actually get it and call us to set up a play date. It made me a little nervous - in today's era of identity theft, I was letting my 7 year old hand out info to complete strangers? Would I come home to a burgled house? Nathan assured me that he handed both slips out, and both of the little boys would be at our house first thing Saturday morning... Never heard from them all weekend. Now 2 weeks later this morning, I get a phone call from a little voice asking if Nathan was home. So we did the laser tag and then the kid came over to our house for about 4 hours of playing. Video games. They spent 90% of the time playing video games. Oh well. Still a red letter day.

So, lets see. I haven't blogged since Monday. What has happened this week. Oh yeah - the election. I am so proud of our country for finally getting to the point where we can elect an African American. I think it's wonderful for older americans who lived before and during the civil rights era, who never thought they'd live to see this day. I also think it's wonderful that parents can tell their children
that they, too, can reach to the highest office. I want our country to succeed and prosper, and I think we should pray for the health, wisdom and leadership of the president, no matter who it is. And I do think it's kinda cool to have a prez closer to my age. Given his educational experiences, he's probably still paying students loans like I am, and he's got small children like I do.

That being said, I did not vote for him, he was not my choice. (Heck, McCain wasn't my choice either). I don't agree with a lot of his policies. I don't think he can deliver everything he's promised, even with dem majorities in congress. But maybe I'll be pleasantly surprised. I actually think it's good for the country to switch back and forth between the 2 parties. The GOP seriously needs to re-tool before the next election. Enough with the politics. I try not to go there on this blog. I know that a lot of my friends and family don't think the same way I do.

But I stayed up so late on Tuesday, I was not firing on all cylinders for a job fair on Wednesday. I was running around like a chicken with my head cut off. I needed to print our resumes, but I had no resume paper, nor a working printer. What to do? Ran to walmart for the paper, spent much too long there, ran an errand for Eric that was practically in the next county, went to the UPS store so I could print my resume off the thumb drive. HOWEVER, they were in the middle of remodeling their store, so no printing there. Raced to the PX and bought a printer. Sped home, set it up and started printing while I got dressed for the job fair. Realized that the black pants I wanted to wear had been in our storage until for 3 weeks and hadn't been washed. Dirt splattered on the cuffs, Harvey hair (which shows up really well on black pants). Dress shoes needed to be polished. Did the best I could, then raced over to the job fair in the drizzle. I did talk to the two employment agencies on post, but I didn't actually apply with any of the companies there. CVS, Home Depot, Target, Bank of America. My goal is to get a job on post. The experience did just prove to me how un-prepared I was, and that I needed to get the quiet time set aside to get a game plan going.

Anyway, I didn't spend long there because I had to run by Eric's work and still get home in time to meet Nathan when he got off from school. It took me about 30 minutes after I got home to realize that the clock in my car, my watch, and my cell phone were all an hour ahead... I hate daylight savings time.

Thursday I had to drive into Savannah. We had stayed there 2 nights while in transit, and the army will reimburse a set amount for those nights, but we didn't have paid receipts. I had called the hotel 3 times about faxing a receipt to the bandhall. Between one thing or another, I ended up driving up there to collect it in person. The real problem was the fact that I had reserved the first night through the Savannah Tourism board web site. Not only did it cost $15 more than paying the hotel directly, the customer service department for reservations through the website is outsourced. So I ended up calling India 3 times, trying to explain my situation. They finally emailed me something, not sure the army will take it, but it's the best I can do.

Nathan came home that day saying that he would have a science project on native americans - what they wear, what they eat, etc. I'm thinking, cool!. I have got all the materials the kid could need - Cherokee, Choctaw, Potawatomi - if I don't have it, I know where to get it. The kid comes home on Friday with the actual instructions - the Paiute tribe. The WHO? Some obscure tribe on the west coast. We are so not going to be able to find anything in the local library. Even wikipedia has skimpy material. Good thing it's not due until next Friday.

As of Friday, I feel pretty settled. The house is as good as it's gonna get. Eric still needs to hang some curtain rods, and we need a new bed, but I think I'm pretty much done stressing over layout and furnishings. We'll be putting up a Christmas tree in about 3 weeks anyway, so that'll screw everything up. The big thing for me was being about to go through all the papers stacked on my sewing table. I had saved every single receipt since we left Lawton back in September. What would we need for reimbursement from the army? My check register was full and I didn't have any others. Little slips of paper everywhere. I was checking our balance online regularly, but still. Once I got everything logged in and sorted and updated, I cannot tell you the weight that lifted off my shoulders. For me, the transition is officially over. Now I can concentrate on life here with a clean conscience.

Eric's having his own adjustments at work. Since he's now an upper NCO, he's higher on the ladder than he's ever been before. That means more responsibility, which he hands just fine. It's the personnel issues that he's unused to dealing with. There's a line from Saving Private Ryan; "Bitches go up, they don't go down." Well, now, they're coming up to him. He's not used to being the go-to-guy for some of these issues. Several of his soldiers have cried on him. We're considering changing his last name to my maiden name. Maybe people see his name tag and just think its okay to cry on his shoulder. Tee-hee.

Seriously though. I think Eric is going to be a good fit here. He's one of the few people in the unit with a combat badge, and all the young newbies look at him differently. He's already thinking of ways to get his ensemble out there more, both on post and around the community. It's kinda ironic, considering what a chip on his shoulder he had when he was 20, but I guess that's the benefit of life and experience on him, seasoning him.

Laser Tag!




Yes, that's right - Nathan and I BOTH played laser tag today for the first time in our lives. I know the pics are blurry, but you get the idea. One of Nathan's classmates called and asked him to go play. Nathan scored a 4500, I scored a 4175. I think the only one I did better than was a 3 year old girl.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Pics online

Okay, if you have access to our flickr.com account, you can find some photos of the living room, kitchen and sewing room in the new place. Not much point yet in taking photos of the bedrooms or Eric's radio room. We can't quite agree on everything on the walls in the living room, but as Eric says, we'll be there for the next 15 years, so we'll have plenty of time to sort it all out(!) Actually, once he goes to ANOC for 2 months, then get deployed later, I'll get to be in charge of the place and can add the mirrored disco ball I've always wanted, and he won't be able to do a thing about it.

If you don't have access to our flickr account, and you want to see the pics, just call or email and I'll invite you.

I'll blog more tomorrow.

Monday, November 3, 2008

yeah for Monday!

I've always known that I'm a loner by nature. But it's definitely become more pronounced since we've moved out here. Eric has the car most days, and I'm spending most of my time getting stuff put away and organized. So when I do get out, my tolerance for traffic and crowds has seriously diminished. Walmart on a Sunday just about did me in. I'll be honest with you - I enjoyed getting my husband and son out of the house today ;).

Lessee - Halloween. Nathan's class was having a party that day, so he dressed up as Batman. We didn't see any other kids wearing costumes as they walked to school, so we were a little nervous that Nathan would be the odd man out. But he assured us that everyone in his class were suitably attired.

We live on a cul-de-sac, with about 20 homes on it. There is another street that branches off it, and together they look like a wishbone (turkey, not football). We're only the 5th house down from the entrance, and I don't have much reason to go further down the street. I knew that the house across the street from us was decorated, as well as the one next door, but I had NO idea how much the entire street had gotten into the spirit of Halloween. I walked with Nathan around the neighborhood. Its was like a tailgate party - even if people hadn't decorated their houses, they were sitting out in their driveways in lawn chairs with their buckets o' candy. It really was a lot of fun. I think the biggest crowd we had at one time was 75 or so. Once we got back to the house, we popped the back of the Mazda open, turned on the dome light, and Nathan and I sat out there to pass out candy. Eric alternated between calling people the phone and yelling 'boo' at unsuspecting kiddies. I didn't get any pictures of Nathan in his costume. He striped out of that puppy ASAP when we got home.

Saturday was typical football day. Eric had a departure ceremony for the Texas national guard unit that had been training here. Got home in plenty of time to watch the game. Now, if we can just bet Tech!

Sunday we watched a marathon of "Living with Ed", a "green" show with actor Ed Begley. Very inspirational. Then we decided to burn some fossil fuel by driving around post. I wanted to go find another island or a swamp. You know, get out there and explore Georgia. Didn't make it that far off post. Did find one of the recreational ponds on the post. Signs clearly say fishing allowed, no swimming, watch the alligators, don't feed them. !!!!!! We didn't find any gators, but we did see lots of potential habits.

I've rearranged the living room again this morning. I think I could actually be comfortable hanging things on the wall now. Although, considering I hung the curtains in our bedroom last night crooked, perhaps I should wait until Eric gets home for his input. Nahhh.